The son of an immigrant father from Santiago, Chile, Tom was born into a Catholic family in San Antonio, Texas. He has five younger siblings, three brothers (two of which are deceased) and two sisters. Growing up Tom was often bullied as he was a small child. By the time he entered junior high school he had already learned one of life's hardest lessons. You needed to stand up to bullies no matter who they were. Even if that bully was the President of the United States. That's why Tom took weekend boxing classes being offered at the downtown San Antonio YMCA. A skill set that has served him well over the years. Tom is married to Lety who was born and raised in Ciudad Juárez. They have one daughter, two grandsons and countless extended family members on both sides of the border.